BREAK UP, HOW AND WHY DOES IT HAPPEN BETWEEN LOVERS.

BREAK UP, HOW AND WHY DOES IT HAPPEN BETWEEN LOVERS

This is the discussion that was engaged in between the Metro Potters on an Online Talk Show called “LET’S TALK ABOUT IT”.

Let’s talk about it is a talk show hosted, viewed and followed by Metro Potters worldwide. Individual Potters share their opinion on a selected topic and discuss how it relates to them individually and to the society at large.

Here are some of the major discussion points during the program.

Pls. Read and drop your comments too.

Let’s Talk About it. Host: Potter Seun, Co Hosts: Potter Wuraola and Potter Olupero.

Potter Seun: I was naive and didn’t know how to go about it for the very first time in my life.

It all started smoothly and I assumed the road was hitch-free until I hit a bump, I got a roadmap and realized there’s more on my way. I’ve gone far, do I turn back, do I continue or stop. Finally, she made the choice, she said, Rawfacts…

Well, join me tonight on #Let’s Talk About it Segment by 9pm.

(IN THE STUDIO)

Potter Seun: Alright, good evening everyone. Thanks for tuning in.

Potter Seun: It’s another wonderful time in here and on your favourite interactive show #Let’s talk about it. Tonight’s issue is interesting and I bet you’ll learn greatly as we all interact.

Potter Seun: I’m Rawfacts…  Good evening and how has been your day?

Potter Seun: #Enjoy this song while we go on this short break…

*Playing Bibanke, by Asa*

Potter Seun: Alright, thanks for staying tuned.  Welcome back. It’s still your favorite show, Let’s talk about it.

Potter Seun: Tonight, the topic is simple but powerful. Tonight’s topic is ”Break up, How and why does it happen between lovers?”

Potter Seun: An average adult has experienced this in one way or the other..

Potter Seun: And this keeps happening everyday. Why does it happen? How does it happen? Can we avoid it? Maybe yes, maybe No!!! But how can we cope after its occurrence? how can we help others to deal with Breakup ?

Potter Seun: Before I continue, I have two special queens with me here in the studio. First queen is Miss Wuraola Gold, my beautiful angel. Can you please say hello to our listeners?

‪Potter Wuraola: Hello everyone. *smiles*

Potter Seun: My second queen is Dr Olupero, my sugar lady. Say hello to your friends please.

Potter Olupero: Hi everybody. *Smiles*

Potter Seun: Alright, thanks ladies.

Potter Seun: Paracetamol works for headache, Lonart works for malaria but the scientists are yet to get a cure for any pain that heartache causes by breakup. From research, it’s been discovered and affirmed that our brains react to breakup the same way it reacts to physical pain.

Potter Seun: So, lady Gold, do you have a contrary opinion to that?

Potter Wuraola : No I don’t.

Potter Seun: Alright, lady Olupero, what do you think?

Potter Olupero: i think d scientist are right.

Potter Olupero: Infact the pain is more felt than any other kind of ache, cause it’s not only physical but also psychological, emotional and even spiritual. Very intense I must say.

Potter Wuraola : Yea. Because the pain is from the most delicate part of the human body system, The Heart.

Potter Seun: Great. Fantastically said my dears.

Potter Seun: Now, after a breakup, we are left with a feeling of  ”I really don’t know myself’. You begin to wonder, I don’t believe this could happen to me. Like ‘Gosh!!!’.

Most of us have broken up with the person(S) we love or seeing our friends breaking up with their lovers.

Now, I heard Most people say the fault is more from guys, can this be true?

(Turns to Potter Wuraola)

Potter Wuraola : I really don’t support that notion.

Potter Seun: why?

Potter Wuraola: Before a guy breaks up with a lady, there definitely must have been a  reason to it. Guys wouldn’t just break up a relationship without a cause. What should have been said if I must agree is that guys are better initiators of breakups than ladies.

Potter Seun: Hmmm. That sounds cool Miss Wuraola.

Dr Olupero… let’s hear from you dear.

Potter Olupero: Both the ladies and guys can be at fault…..but it depend on the side of the occurrences that led to the break up each of the parties are. The guy may be at the faulty side than the lady and vice versa. One cannot accurately assert that a particular gender causes breakup than the other.

Potter Seun: That’s makes a lot of sense Dr. Pero. Well, it’s time we hear some other points of view from our listeners at home.

(Potter Wuraola slides in a comment)

Potter Wuraola : Excuse me, let me quickly add this. Being the first to voice it out that there should be a break up doesn’t always mean you are the bad one.

Potter Seun: That’s true dear.  Friends, start calling in. I’m sure you know the numbers to call.

Potter Olupero: ooops We have a caller already.

Potter Olupero: Hello

Potter Omowunmi: Hello Sir and Ma’s

Potter Omowunmi: Good evening

Potter Seun: Hello Omowunmi. Speak up dear. Let’s hear your view

Potter Omowunmi : I want to ask a question. And I want to direct the question to Miss Wuraola.

Potter Omowunmi : Wuraola, are you trying to tell us that ladies cause breakups more than guys? Because your point of view seems to be nailing ladies as the culprits.

Potter Wuraola : No, I didn’t mean that. What I was trying to say is in response to Seun’s comment that Guys cause break ups more. In my opinion, no particular gender can be categorized as the one who cause break ups, it simply depends on the situation surrounding the relationship that eventually culminated to the breakup.

Potter Omowunmi : Oh, that’s fine, now I get you. Thank you.

Potter Wuraola : One major problem have observed from ladies is that we don’t to see reasons why we should breakup with the one we love even if  there is a reason,  we still try to hold on. On the other hand, guys don’t stick that obsessively to relationships, when it doesn’t work, they are not just going force it to. Guys would simply not push a relationship father than it can go.

Potter Seun: Thanks for calling in Miss Omowunmi.

Potter Olupero: Yes. In addition to what Wuraola said, we ladies don’t quit easily because we think things will improve. But when we are hurt beyond bounds, then we realize we’ve been doing things out of our senses.

Potters Seun: That’s true Dr. Pero. Oops. We got another caller. Excuse me ladies, let’s have this caller.

Potter Seun: Hello Mr Taiwo

Potter Taiwo : Yes boss, I’m so glad to reach the studio tonight.  Greetings to everyone in the studio. I’m going to make my opinions about the subject of matter. Anybody could cause a break up. Guys or Ladies.

Potter Wuraola : Yes, that’s correct sir. Both parties are involved.

Potter Olupero: Yeah.

Potter Taiwo : It only depends on factors like, the place of contact. That is, where they met. For an instance, a lady who met a man working in a garage or a rough work environment should be prepared to be maltreated

Potter Wuraola : I don’t think that’s true sir.  Group or work environment doesn’t matter sir.

Potter Olupero: hmmm.. Mr. Taiwo, what about a lady who met a guy in d university or a cooperate office?

Potter Olupero: It’s  attitude and personality that matters, not work environment.

Potter Taiwo : Well, another factor is ‘Understanding’. If either of them fails to understand the other, they definitely are heading to the point of breaking up.

Potter Wuraola : Work only affects time in a relationship, that limited time can only affect your intimacy.

Potter Olupero: Tell me d work that won’t allow good relationship.

Potter Taiwo : 419 and armed robbery are examples.

Potter Olupero: once you understand each other’s  job, I don’t think there should be a problem.

Potter Wuraola : It’s almost time to round it all off.

Potter Olupero: We will be rounding off now. We will continue from in the next edition of the program. Same time same Network.

Potter Olupero: Once again I’m Dr. Olupero and with me is

Potter Wuraola : Wuraola.

Potter Wuraola : Thanks for viewing.

Potter Olupero: To our audience, we love you all.

Potter Wuraola : On behalf of our chief host, Mr. Seun Rawfacts, we are saying thank you. Catch you all soon. Cheers…